A couples toy designed to stimulate Clitoris, G-spot and penis.
An advanced toy for experienced users…read more to get the full story.
My last 2 toy investments had predominantly been for solo play, it was definitely time to explore what was out there for couples. The toys we had been using were from when Granny fell of the bus.
A friend of mine had been doing some research into toys, he had a long distance relationship, and had discovered the We-Vibe range which had remote control through a phone app. Not something I really needed, but sounded modern and titillating.
I browsed the internet reading up on the various offerings and was immediately intrigued by the We-Vibe Sync. A couples toy that can be used to stimulate the G-spot, clitoris and penis. Sounded like the party I was looking for.
The price tag on this toy was R4500. For that price a full body massage should be included, but I had vouchers to spend so I took the plunge. [subsequently the price has come down substantially]
The blurb on one of the websites, mentions this was an advanced sex toy. I mean what does that even mean? I scoffed at this, a toy is a toy is a toy. Some toys are easier to use than others, but how advanced could advanced be!
The We-Vibe is neatly packaged in a square box and the toy and remote fit beautifully into a hard plastic case, with a recharge point on the side. Easy to charge discreetly, the connection is solid. As with most toys these days, waterproof for easy cleaning and water play.
The instruction pamphlet gives the bare minimum; for more details you are directed to the website. Who has time for that.
First use was with my partner. It goes without saying that a toy that stimulates cock, clitoris and G-spot is likely to speed up orgasm. It did.
Let me say upfront, the sensation, intensity and orgasmic pleasure achieved when the toy is correctly placed, is magnificent. However, this is certainly not where we started. Achieving the perfect position takes practice; and when I did manage to find the sweet spots, I struggled to keep the toy on said sweet spots and in fact inside me with my partners cock in motion.
I shall take a step back. The Sync is adjustable. You can bend the silicone to best fit your clitoris and G-spot ratio. The pamphlet shows pictures of a tick for correct way to bend it and a cross for incorrect. I mean it’s literally all I looked at before we started to play, but it made me so hesitant to overbend it for fear of breaking my new party piece. This was a mistake. Adjust the toy before the horse bolts and don’t be afraid, this will avoid the frustration I experienced. I say I and not we, because the sensation on the cock is very pleasurable wherever it’s positioned, but to get the correct placement for the woman is more specific.
The picture showed the toy in use in the missionary position, so dutifully we tried this first. The overall sensation of the vibrations was spectacular, but it wasn’t targeting anywhere specific and the toy kept being pushed out. In the meantime my partner was enjoying heightened stimulation. Time to change tack. [Advanced toy flashed through my head]
Reverse cowgirl was the next position I tried. This way I felt I had much more control and could hold the toy in position, while moving it about to achieve the clitoral and G-spot stimulation. My partner was in the meantime getting continuous stimulation from the toy and me riding him… which is why I suggest playing alone first to bend and acquaint yourself with the toy. Your partner can be with you, but don’t simply switch, insert and off we go.
When you get it right with your partner, you will go wild. The first few times I didn’t fully feel the G-spot stimulation but the vibrations inside with his cock and the clitoral play, caused an epic vaginal, clitoral orgasm.
There is so much consternation around the G-spot, where it is and if it even exits. It does. [Read Air on a G-Spot] You don’t have to find it to cum vaginally but it’s a very clear and separate trigger point for me. The We-Vibe Sync is not ideally shaped to trigger it for me, but the sensation of the vibrations inside with my partner thrusting or me riding, really is out of this world.
We tried doggy style, which also worked for me and I even managed to position the toy so I could let go of it. [Advanced toy now screaming in my head]
The We-Vibe Sync has a separate remote which is great and I would say vital, because once it’s doing its thing, to then find the increase switch would be a killer. It is a small nifty device to change speeds and vibrations. Although it is small enough to misplace while swinging from the chandelier, which can be amusing.
We tried some variations not stipulated like wrapping it around the cock, nipple play, anal stimulation (not penetration…but hey let me know!) to mention a few. It’s toy…so play.
The We-Vibe is quieter than many of my other toys, no toy is super silent, but there was no panic when we switched on, that the children would ask why we were mowing the lawn in the middle of the night!
I downloaded and tested the App on my phone; it seems to work well. I’ve never tried remote play, but I think it’s a brilliant thing for couples to do, especially if you are away from your partner for extended times and want to keep physically connected.
I have also used it on my own, and again if bent in the right way, you can stop holding it and lie back and enjoy intense orgasms. Having said this, it is not my choice of solo play. [Read my review of the Womanizer Duo]
This really is an advanced toy, not because you won’t get the hang of it, but it’s certainly more than just plug and play, and requires focused, attentive application. I’m not sure it was worth the R4500 I paid, but the We-Vibe Sync is retailing for R2995 now, in which case, if you are looking for a fun couples toy that actually does the job…go for it.